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__Bonk__  5 stars
Posts: 5,122
Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
It seems like many of the people on Match.com really are too busy to date. The woman I talked to last night said men she met were that way too. Funny thing was she is that way too. She works seven days a week and does stuff many times at night too. When does she have time to date?

 

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Spilt_Milk
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Registered: 2002-1-12 22:53:10
When you have enough money that she doesn't have to work.

 

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Ptilk  4 stars
Title: Creepy old pirate
Posts: 2,359
Registered: 2002-2-13 14:52:58
She has plenty of time to date, it's just a way for her to have a built in excuse not to see anyone except on her terms and when she wants it to happen.

It' control, not lack of time.
Aerlinthian  4 stars
Posts: 2,126
Registered: 2001-5-7 23:53:38
What Ptilk said.
__Bonk__  5 stars
Posts: 5,122
Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
Ptilk posted:

She has plenty of time to date, it's just a way for her to have a built in excuse not to see anyone except on her terms and when she wants it to happen.

It' control, not lack of time.



She was also a half hour late to the date saying she forgot the time and thought it was at 730 not 700

 

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ZigmundZag  4 stars
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Registered: 2002-3-25 23:03:00
Well at least you didn't stand her up at 7:15 this time.

 

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__Bonk__  5 stars
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Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
lol I told her about that lol

I emailed her and then when I got no response I left at a half hour and the restaurant called me and told me she was waiting there lol

We had a great date but I still dont know if she wants to make the time to date me more.

My dates are getting better and more fun

 

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Ptilk  4 stars
Title: Creepy old pirate
Posts: 2,359
Registered: 2002-2-13 14:52:58
Just tell her to call you if she ever has the time....then start on the next one. Who knows? Maybe she will take you up on it.
-Ducky-  3 stars
Posts: 580
Registered: 2001-6-1 14:21:49
I'd move on from that lady. If someone wants to see me they need to make time for me, as I will make time for them. I am not "fitting" myself into anyone's schedule.

 

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eodoll  4 stars
Posts: 1,028
Registered: 2002-2-14 12:35:42
People say they are too busyto date as an excuse for why they dont put themselves out there. Its a better excuse than 'im depressed' or 'im heart broken'. So too busy is a big catchall for a lot of reasons.

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