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__Bonk__  5 stars
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Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
Apparently you arent rewarded for honesty. No wonder so many men just lie like crazy

 

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Lyken-P  2 stars
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Registered: 2006-1-14 18:41:19
When you are the dominate one (ie... "The Man" you don't have lie... it's when you are cowardly and don't want to take responsibility for your words that you have to lie. (most men have been beaten down to be submissive to women these days).
__Bonk__  5 stars
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Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
I tell the truth and I'm as honest as possible.

 

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eodoll  4 stars
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Registered: 2002-2-14 12:35:42
I dont know what youre referring to but im 100% sure you dont understand how to talk to people or understand what people really mean.
__Bonk__  5 stars
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What?

 

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Lyken-P  2 stars
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Registered: 2006-1-14 18:41:19
__Bonk__ posted:

I tell the truth and I'm as honest as possible.

But you still sound like you have a (not to be mean, but) weak, unassured personality. Confidently saying the truth is much different than an shy type person telling the truth. When you're shy women will think they can walk all over you, and they are above you. So when a shy person criticizes them, they pretty much think "I am too good for you anyways" and moves on.
__Bonk__  5 stars
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Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
Hard to be extra confident when you dont have too much experience with relationships and also less than successful in your chosen job.

 

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Lyken-P  2 stars
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Registered: 2006-1-14 18:41:19
__Bonk__ posted:

Hard to be extra confident when you dont have too much experience with relationships and also less than successful in your chosen job.

You don't get confidence by making excuses for why you shouldn't be confident.
eodoll  4 stars
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Registered: 2002-2-14 12:35:42
On a date, if a woman says she has met a bunch of losers lately..

Thats just her venting.

The right response to that is not "you have terrible choices in men"...

The right answer is along the lines " i know what you mean.. Its hard to meet someone right"

Something reassuring, she is just venting amd making SMALL talk. But with you, there is no small talk i guess.
__Bonk__  5 stars
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Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
Thats an odd thing for her to say. She does make bad choices in her mates.

 

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