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Okay I will reply to some of the comments from a few people. First, yes I know full and well that once one starts slinging mud, even in defense, that mud sticks to both parties. Does that mean I will not defend myself? Not on your life. I am not here trying to "warn" anyone. I did that, after that I left the matter as closed. This, this was yet another attack (Not the first mind you, just the latest one that once again forced me to take it in a public venue and cry foul) Here is why I chose to take it to the VN boards. First, I do like to hear other folk’s opinions on the matter. Take Stratus for example. He made a valid point. After last nights Relic raids hell I would not want to follow me. *Yes it was that ugly*
Second, I can not go to her public venue to defend myself, her comments were made to her guild, her alliance, they are made behind the scenes in a place where I am not invited, nor have tried to force my way into. I can not defend myself there, so I will do so here. I am less trying to besmirch her name as I am trying to defend my own. Here let me try and explain this a bit more.
Do I hate Sasiah, or have no respect for her? The answer to both of those are no. I believe Sasiah can be VERY nice indeed if she likes you. She will wait for you for hours, alone, until you have time, and there she is waiting to help you. She can and has selflessly devoted hours of her time to help someone out with no reason other than she wanted to see someone else happy. On the flip side, if you have earned the black star of disdain from her. Katy bar the door for all hell will be loosed. Personal attacks, vindictive lies, concocted stories are a thing she is not above. I can not stomach the thought of letting her japes fly without an answer. I was always taught to stand up for yourself, your beliefs, your friends and family.
Third, at least this way she is forced to confront me, and in THIS confrontation, she can not later hide behind some half-truth to defend her ways. I would much rather air my dirty laundry in public than have it sit in the shadows, moldering and smelly until I get used to the smell.
Last point I would like to respond to.. Bart - you have an excellent point, and were I not upset about it, I would have loved to re-word it as such. Hindsight being 20/20 I do like your idea. I am not the best at much of anything much less some in-fighting battle where someone literally hates you. I have had it explained to me to ignore the person. I have an issue with letting a sleazy underhanded person get away with the snide backbiting comments.
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