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Taliesihne  4 stars
Title: Wind on the Deep Waters
Posts: 1,117
Registered: 2004-2-19 04:47:59
I feel bad about it.

Then again she woke me out of a dead sleep at 4:15 am to run to work to deal with a non-emergency.

Bleh, women.

 

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Crackdoc  1 star
Posts: 236
Registered: 2005-10-7 12:55:29
Isn't her employer shutting down soon? How 'urgent' could anything be?


Better she got up early to job hunt.


 

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Cawlin  4 stars
Posts: 1,759
Registered: 2005-2-22 07:58:42
She loves you. You love her. Apologize as soon as you have the opportunity. I'd be surprised if you made a habit of being mean to her. Siht happens now and then. All will be well.

 

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Moe_Nox  4 stars
Title: In Moe We Trust
Posts: 1,962
Registered: 2007-2-4 12:17:56
Wrong, do not apologize, she was the one that did wrong waking you up for a silly reason.
Tell her you can forgive her, but cloning her a double of her for you would speed up the forgiving process.

 

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Taliesihne  4 stars
Title: Wind on the Deep Waters
Posts: 1,117
Registered: 2004-2-19 04:47:59
Cawlin posted:

She loves you. You love her. Apologize as soon as you have the opportunity. I'd be surprised if you made a habit of being mean to her. Siht happens now and then. All will be well.



I apologized. All is well. And yes, it's extremely unusual for me to be mean. In 9 years of marriage we've never had an actual fight. We argue, of course, but bs screaming\yelling - eff that.

A huge part of being successful at marriage is learning to pick and choose your battles. She's obsessive about work. I'm a grump when awoken early. It is what it is. Not worth a huge fight.

 

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eodoll  4 stars
Posts: 1,028
Registered: 2002-2-14 12:35:42
It's nice that you felt bad about it - it shows that you dont do it often enough to have become desensitized to such situations with your wife.
vn_nnanji  4 stars
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Registered: 2001-6-30 17:22:56

 

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Modeeb  4 stars
Title: A Ghost In The Machine
Posts: 1,258
Registered: 2002-4-19 10:48:36
We all have an edge once in awhile accept yourself and move on.

 

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__Bonk__  5 stars
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Registered: 2009-7-25 03:04:52
You are just human. Nice to see that you noticed

There is hope for you

 

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