El Tank is probably your best bet bud. In fact, the reason why Tank has "too much config to deal with" is because it has so many things it can do for you. Irregardless of what plugin you find, you will still have to configure it to what YOU like, unless you can get someone to write a specific one for You only.
Saying that tho....
1. You can probably use quite a number of plugins that do buffs, inc LtX, L Tank, Castaway, etc
2. LTx can ID things for you if you click something, but Im not sure if it can auto-ID if it is not "On". You can use Find It, El Tank, and a couple of others for this
3. Only know of LTx for this but might be a couple of others
4. I think Squire does this...
5. U.S.T.? No clue if it's working but this is a good example of something you will need to configure regardless of what plugin you use so it will work the way You want it. LTx will do this, but in "On" mode. Alinco i think does it as well.
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